Discernment and Announcement

To all friends, family, supporters and blog readers -

As early as three months into Our Journey here in Malawi, Jeff and I began to ask one another if we would be ready to leave in one year’s time.  As Christmas and the six-month mark arrived we had some of the lowest and most lonely moments of this mission experience.  But even through the holidays without family, we arrived on the other side still pulled to extend our commitment.

As we began to plan the second half of our year, our passion and excitement continued to grow.  Claire Marin has also turned a corner.  Instead of counting down the days to going home, she has begun to look forward to events and programs next year in Standard 6 at Phoenix International School.

So, with some trepidation and yet another plea for your prayers, we are posting the letter we sent to family and close friends announcing our discernment and decision to extend our commitment in Malawi for another two years!

We hope that you will celebrate with us and the Malawi United Methodist Church this extended partnership.  And that you will start saving your pennies and frequent flyer miles to come visit!

Blessings on the journey,

Kara, Jeff, Carter and Claire Marin

As many of you know Jeff and I have been wondering and struggling with whether or not to extend our time here.  Not only is the ministry fulfilling, but we are also increasingly aware of how long it took to build a foundation and we would love to have the opportunity to build on that foundation.  Rev. Mhone has recently expressed his conviction that our coming was definitely within God’s timing and he can see many benefits to our coming, and an extension of our service.

As all of this stirs in us, Jeff has also discovered some serious logistical problems with our plane tickets.  I don’t need to go into all of it, but airline fine print and the World Cup in South Africa make it too expensive ($3,000+) to fly home any time after April.  So…

We feel called/prompted/persuaded to come home on our scheduled flights, arriving in Nashville on April 15.  Then we will return to Malawi in late August for another 2 years.  deep breath…

At first we were disappointed to be cutting our one year commitment short by over 3 months.  But as plans develop and opportunities arise, we are realizing the gift and opportunity in this plan.  We have a responsibility and desire to share the witness of the Malawi United Methodist Church with each of the congregations, groups and individuals who are supporting us.  We need to plan and develop a sustainable income base that will allow us to follow this call.  And the time at home may allow us to go on the traditional Oliver beach trip, as well as spend quality time with friends and family in Tennessee and Indiana.

Claire Marin is actually supportive of the idea as well, looking forward to Standard 6 at Phoenix, a class trip to Mt. Mulanje, and another year with her new friends.  Jeff will be home schooling her for a few months while in Nashville because she will miss one full term at her school here.  Carter’s flexibility, energy and persistent joy are one of our biggest blessings through each and every adjustment.

We plan to continue paying rent on our house here in Malawi while we are gone, paying Wilson and Fina’s salaries as they maintain the house for us so that we do not have to move AGAIN.

So that’s where we are.  After Christmas we made an intentional effort to release much of the fear that had been controlling our thoughts, fear about what people would think, fear of letting people down, fear of not accomplishing all that we want to.  I think it helped us to see and hear more clearly.  As when we made the decision the first time, our hearts breaks to think about being away from each of you longer.  I pray that you will forgive us, pray with us and love us through yet another transition.

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14 Comments on “Discernment and Announcement”

  1. Chris Haynes Says:

    Sounds very exciting! I do hope I can catch up with you guys during your visit home, and I celebrate your decision to continue this phase of your life together.

  2. Katie Says:

    I’ve been hearing this call through your posts — as hard as some absences have been, I’ve heard an incredible joy in you through your ministry. Enjoy the three months in Nashville, but also treasure those feelings of excitement as you prepare to return to Malawi! I’m in a lectionary group with 3 UMC ministers here in OH and if you’d like me to share your story with them, I’d be thrilled to extend your story however you would like it to be shared!

    Blessings on this wonderful journey!

  3. Doug Hagler Says:

    Wow! I pray that God will confirm your decision with every passing day. How exciting for each of you.

  4. Lloyd Nace Says:

    Thank you for continuing to blog. Two more years! Your faith and determination is incredible.


  5. Wow, you guys are such an inspiration. I’m glad to hear you’ve gotten some clarity on your calling, and you all will remain in our prayers.

  6. Robin Pippin Says:

    Jeff and Kara,

    I am looking forward to seeing you all during your time back in Nashville! I know that this decision has been made with a lot of prayer and discernment, and I support you.

  7. lanecia Says:

    Exciting times!
    Peace of Christ be with you.

  8. Leanna Says:

    Wow! Such exciting news! It sounds like Malawi really is becoming your second home. I am really grateful for having that kind of connection to Morocco from living there as a child, so I know this will be a great gift to Claire and Carter as they grow. We hope to see you during your time here this summer!

  9. Mrs. Sherry Says:

    I’m so excited for you all!!!!!!!!!!!!
    And thanks for letting me peek in to see what’s happening through this blog. :)

  10. Andrea Says:

    Well done! You all are gifts of hope and inspiration in Malawi and here in the States. Peace be with you now that this decision is both real and public. :) Let me know how we at UMPH can help with that income part…hopeful to have some time to hear even more stories once you’re back for a little while.

  11. Jenny Says:

    Very big decision, and I’m sure, very thoughtfully made.
    How exciting!

  12. Anne Trudel Says:

    Jeff and Kara,
    I heard the news about your extended stay in Malawi at work on Thursday. I’ve been following your experiences with interest, as my husband and I have been attending Belmont UMC since July. Blessings on you as you continue your ministry there. I hope to get to see you when you return to Nashville in April.

  13. Lori Pearce Says:

    Wow! I know that Your commitment to serving will enable all of us to listen a little more closely to where we are called. We will save our pennies and miles.

  14. Mindy Says:

    Your courage in doing what feels right is admirable. Thank you for sharing some of your thoughts and feelings around the decision! We can wholeheartedly affirm the amazing things that happen after the first year of hard work establishing relationships in a new place. We continue to think of you often! Maybe this way, I can plan a trip with seminarians from the context of my new job to visit you!


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