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Africa Time

People often talk of “Africa time”. And it is often juxtaposed against (in my presence) “America time”. There is a conception – I believe it is a misconception – that people in Africa do not value time, or move in time in the same way that Westerners do. Even to write such a sweeping generalization should give us a clue that it cannot be entirely true.

It is true that things rarely happen as scheduled. We often make programs, set agendas and plan in advance. By we, I mean the leaders here in the Malawi Missionary Conference – American, European, Zimbabwean and Malawian. We make the plans, but rarely do the plans happen at the designated time. This is not because people in Malawi do not care about time. It is largely due to circumstance. Mini-buses don’t run on time. Filling stations run out of fuel just when you’re on your way to pick up a friend. Air Malawi grounds its plane for service when you want to fly to Zimbabwe. Electricity goes out. Water goes out. The best laid plans are confounded by daily circumstances.

It is not that Malawians do not care about time, but that they have a realistic understanding of the circumstances they are facing. I can assure you that the two men who set off yesterday to move a pastor to her new circuit did not take it lightly when they got stranded on the side of the road at 3am after visiting two mechanics and suffering through two breakdowns in the only pick up truck that the circuit owns. And the Publications training event had every intention of starting the meeting on time so that participants could make it to their homes on time last night. But when 30 youth need to bathe and there is only one bathroom, it makes starting at 9am a logistical impossibility.

Why am I thinking about this tonight? Because I am exhausted. I know after 18 months of living in Malawi, that it is unrealistic to think that everything can happen according the schedule that I have made. I know that just because I want a newsletter published by January 15 there are a million bumps in the road that will make it impossible. I know that just because the immigration office says that passports will be out in 2 weeks does not mean that it will actually happen. I know these things, yet I still default to my culture of origin where things can be planned down to 5 minute increments, planning a dozen activities for one month, setting dates and deadlines that are only realistic if one has daily electricity, internet that stays connected for more than 30 minutes at a time, and colleagues who have the same basics.

So I have compiled a newsletter, pushed authors for deadlines, translators for translations, leaders for calendar dates, and printers for commitments. I have planned and taught a writing seminar without the help of colleagues because I ran out of time to coordinate assistance, edited 2.5 books, written a 10-month preaching plan (really, that’s ludicrous), and submitted two sets of Policies and Procedures that assume our leaders here have phones, phone units and money for transportation. I still function as if I live in the USA, demanding that time conform to my needs.

“Africa time” is viewed as charming or amusing by some, backwards by others, and denigrated by many. “Africa time” is viewed as a disrespect for time, when actually, I think my partners have a much more deep and abiding respect for time. Time is of great value and projects and tasks should not be abandoned simply because they take (too much) time. While Jeff and I would rather get traffic ticket after traffic ticket instead of stand in the endless queues to get a proper Malawian driver’s license, our friend Chimango, patiently goes from one line to the next, from Road Traffic to the bank and back again to Road Traffic. He asks the same questions of different people, searching out the process that will finally and enigmatically lead to a driver’s license. It takes immense amounts of time, but he does it and with such patience and grace. While I would be sighing and grumbling and cursing, he passes the time, makes progress and show results.

He is not a saint. He also gets frustrated. But he knows time is precious. And so he persists and perseveres in the face of time, not cursing the waste of time. So who is it that truly respects time?

This is not articulated very well – because I’m tired. But tomorrow I’m going to rest. I’m going to paint my toe nails, help Carter and Claire with their homework, and not follow up on any deadlines. Maybe I’ll even journal something coherent. But just because I say I’m going to blog, don’t expect to read a new entry tomorrow… because I’m on Africa time.

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Praying today…

May the peace of the Lord Christ go with you : wherever he may send you;

may he guide you through the wilderness : protect you through the storm;

may he bring you home rejoicing : at the wonders he has shown you;

may he bring you home rejoicing : once again into our doors.

from commonprayer.net

Praying today for my family, for the leaders of the Malawi UMC, for all those who seek God’s will and require the boldness of the Spirit to follow. My prayers are inspired by Mozelle Core who, even now, sees wonder in every moment and lives her life as a song of joy. Amen.

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the value of education

This week I have had several conversations about the importance of education. It’s another one of those things that I take for granted as a North American, where public school is not only free but required through high school. It’s difficult to appreciate the debate of whether or not to send one’s children to school when public schools in the USA employ truant officers to follow-up on students who have been missing school. Yet education in Malawi is viewed as a privilege for most, and even a luxury.

My mind fills with snippets of conversations and stories and struggles of friends and church members to pursue education.

One youth member (age 22) is trying to complete Form 4 (12 grade), repeating so that he can improve his scores and apply for certificate or diploma courses. He is relentless in seeking school fees and attending class each day. One day as he rushed to class a young child shouted after him, “Where are you going in such a hurry?”“To school,” he replied. The child was confused, “School is not for big people like you, but for little ones, like us.” He stopped long enough to explain that no one was ever too old to finish his or her education.

There are many, like him, who see the value of education and will make any sacrifice to attain it. When we moved to this new house just before Christmas we hired another night guard. Yesterday he told us that in the three weeks since he has been employed with us, he has sent his four children to school and he has enrolled in night school himself. With only 1 and half months of salary he has invested it in education.

I also visited with an esteemed woman of our local church this week. She has a teachers’ diploma from the Teachers’ Training College of Malawi and a bachelor’s degree from Africa University, the United Methodist university in Mutare, Zimbabwe. She has sent her children (biological and the children of four sisters who have died) to receive higher education as well. But this all came at a great price.

She grew up in a village in Mulanje in the southern region. There she attended primary school to Standard (grade) 4 with all the children of her village. But when she returned to school in Standard 5 she was the only girl. For three years she continued her education in the village as the only girl and watched as her friends married, as young as 13, and began their families.

By Standard 8 even the chief began to pressure her family to take her out of school. So her grandmother sent her to live with an aunt in the city to finish secondary (high) school. And her grandmother told her not to return to the village until she had finished. She took this advice to heart and even continued on after secondary school to pursue her teaching certificate. And then, after 7 years, she returned to the village to reunite with her family, meet that same chief, and announce that the government would be appointing her as a primary school teacher.

She was privileged later in life to attend Africa University, although she had to make another sacrifice to do so, dropping out of the government tenure and pension program to pursue higher education. Despite some set backs and struggles, she and her husband now support four surviving siblings in the village and at least eight children of their own and orphaned. But none of this would have been possible without the education that she worked so hard for.

But it is so difficult to imagine and patiently pursue dreams of education when hungry mouths surround you. Although we do not pay Wilson an exorbitant salary, we are realizing that we do pay well above the average expat salary. With this money he now supports 9 people and has nearly finished a house for his mother (who keeps 7 people) in his home village. With all of these people looking to him, he worries that money spent on education is selfish or wasteful. He does not see how completing secondary school can assist his family, but only takes money away from them now.

And this leads me to the conversation I had with one of our wise advisors from Zimbabwe. While Zimbabwe has enormous problems, there is a long history of value placed on education. The culture and country as a whole is extremely well-educated. And so the Dr. has been serving as the chair of the Board of Higher Education and Ministry while working in Malawi. As we finalized the plan for a church scholarship program he discussed the need for the church to be educating lay members and pastors on the value of education. And the BHEM emphasized in their scholarship guidelines that parents must make some contribution to the education of their children. The guidelines of the scholarship demonstrate that the church will stand alongside those families that are willing to invest in their children’s future.

Hosea 4:6a is quoted at least once a week in some conversation or context, “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge”. The leaders of the Malawi UMC understand the importance of education – academic, professional and Biblical – and they bear witness to that value by seeking scholarships for pastors, their children and publishing a quarterly newsletter that encourages people to read and to study their Bibles.

I pray that this value spreads throughout the church and that we will see more and more adults and children investing in the one thing that can never be taken away from them, education.

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This almost blog has been sitting on my desk top for months in hopes that I’d come up with more items for the list. But you may enjoy these…

You know you’re not from around here when…

you still jump when a lizard falls onto the toilet seat.

it feels so good to put on jeans and a tank top.

you forget to ask the fuel station attendant how he/she is before you request fuel.

you don’t know how much you weigh in kilograms.

you forget to include tea time when planning events.

you don’t know where your trash goes.

you have no idea what the temperature is when it’s given to you in celsius.

you didn’t know plants on the front porch were a sign of your value as woman of the house.

you don’t think it’s crazy to give the dog a blanket to sleep on outside.

you celebrate John Chilembwe day but don’t know who he was (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Chilembwe).

you show up for meetings at the announced start time.

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December 2010 Newsletter

For those who are not on our email list, there is a link below to our quarterly newsletter. Enjoy!

December 2010 Newsletter

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