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Yesterday morning as church ended, Pastor Kaunda told the congregation that next Sunday will be our family’s last Sunday at Galilea UMC. He invited me up to say a few words.

When I got to the front and turned around to face the congregation no words would come. My eyes filled with tears and I just stood there staring at the faces I love. After what felt like a couple minutes, I turned to Kaunda and said, “I can’t.” He put his hand on my shoulder and said I could sit down.

That’s all I can say about that.

learning

A volunteer mission team of one has come and gone, we are in the midst of a staggered departure of the Belmont VIM team, two more teams arrive this week as well as the General Board of Global Ministries missionaries, Teddy and Sylvia Crum with their daughter Lily. In less than 3 weeks the conference will host a Round Table meeting with international partners and local leadership, followed by the 2011 Annual Conference meeting. Then three days later we will board a plane to come home.

The learning continues. Steve Riley helped us see how important it is to share and celebrate the great strides that are being made in Malawi alongside the challenges where we appreciate his medical knowledge and perspective.

Dr. Steve Riley

Dr. Steve Riley greets the church at Tengani UMC

We used that learning to shape the Belmont VIM team itinerary, visiting the new full-day, English only nursery school at Galilea UMC, the mushroom project at the same church and a local social enterprise, The Beehive. The team got to see the success, hope and inspiration of different people and projects.

Belmont UMC VIM Team

Belmont team visits the mushroom project at Galilea UMC

Then they spent three days working side-by-side with church members painting the new conference office. They could hear firsthand about the challenges and dreams of youth and adult members. Jeff helped me to learn that the beauty of a VIM team is that the work is slowly abandoned over the days as people become engrossed in conversations and get so caught up in questions and answers that the paint brushes are forgotten.

Lunch at the work site

Lunch at the work site

The Belmont team continued on with the Oliver family and Moty Mhone to Lake Malawi. Time to relax, enjoy the beauty the lake and have extended conversations confirmed our heart learning that Belmont UMC is so much more than our church, but our brothers and sisters in Christ. I knew many of the team members by name only, but we laughed, prayed, sang and worked together quickly and easily because of the tie that binds us.

Time away

Weekend with good friends at Satemwa Tea Estate

As I type Jeff is posting pictures of a weekend with our friends at the tea estates. Another learning is the balance of work and play and letting go of guilt for enjoying time away. Our family has developed a rhythm of work and play that seems healthy. At first the time away and places to visit were spurred by necessity and exhaustion. Now we plan and look forward to time apart to recharge and sustain ourselves individually and as a family.

This week we will greet new teams, learn from their past experiences in Malawi and begin to dream together.

And we will try to share what we have learned with Teddy and Sylvia as they begin learning on their own.

And so much of what we have learned is still taking root, still growing. As the roots go deeper I pray they will break the hard places of my soul. And I wait anxiously for any fruits and flowers that blossom in the coming days.

Joy

Anything with Nothing

“We, the unwilling, led by the unknowing, are doing the impossible for the ungrateful. We have done so much, for so long, with so little, we are now qualified to do anything with nothing.” –Mother Teresa

Several years ago the Malawi Missionary Conference shared a vision with Belmont UMC of a conference center in Blantyre with administrative offices, hostels, a beautiful chapel, and meeting rooms. The only thing they had was a large piece of land, a temporary shelter church, a few small houses and big dreams. But Belmont UMC responded with a generous donation as part of their own building campaign.

When we came in 2009 Jeff was assigned the task of starting the construction of the perimeter fence. We have learned that the first thing to do is secure the property so that materials are secure as further building and development takes place. This fence (the funds allowed us to finish 50% of the fence) began to create clear boundaries and signal a larger presence of the UMC in the neighborhood on what we refer to as Nancholi Properties.

In recent months, Jeff has again moved this vision forward. The conference staff (yes, we are a staff!) decided it was time to stop renting office space next to the egg sellers and move onto our own property! The largest of the houses on the property has fresh interior paint, new locks, a new gate at the fence, and the furniture moved in… and the vision moves a step closer to reality.

But this simple move has triggered a new ownership and activity as well. One of the smaller houses has been designated for the Women’s Office and Health Ministry. It will house the Women’s Organization Assistant, the newly hired Health Coordinator and accommodate the new Nutrition Program. Renovations on this house will begin this week.

But the Women and Health ministries didn’t wait for the renovations to begin utilizing the space. In April the two organizations partnered to host an HIV/AIDS training seminar for Pastors’ Wives to raise awareness and begin building capacity in each of the circuits. The women slept in the Women/Health office, the sessions were held at Galilea Local Church.

AND, simultaneously that weekend a representative from United Methodist Communications (Nashville) was training 9 Communicators in news writing in the Head Office.

Two weeks later Galilea UMC opened a full-day, English only nursery school. They are employing two Galilea women who were trained in Early Childhood Education earlier in the year by our new missionary, Inke Johannsen. Nearly forty children are enrolled with a waiting list of over 20!

I sat in my office last week surrounded by nearly 10,000 new booklets produced by the Publications Committee, Jeff worked to install the wireless internet (another gift from Belmont UMC), the Superintendent answered emails in the office next door. I got a call from Inke asking if I could run something over to the nursery school. As I went I found the Pastor and Mai Abusa outside the parsonage discussing activities for the week and placed my order for mushrooms from the Galilea Women’s project located on the same property.

Oh, and within a month Tiwasunge (a home based care organization) will likely start raising chickens in the poultry house located adjacent to the Head Office.

And at the beginning of June the Belmont UMC Volunteer in Mission team will work with lay members of Galilea UMC to continue renovations at the Head Office, painting the exterior, repairing some cement work and a little beautification too.

It’s amazing to see the transformation in just a month’s time. And the activity on this one piece of property is a microcosm of all that is happening within the conference as whole. Please keep praying and I will pray that each of you are able to “come and see” for yourselves.

Carter

As we were leaving school yesterday one of Carter’s friends turned to me and said in a most accusing voice, “Carter pushed me today on the playground.” And he watched to see if I would chastise or beat Carter right then and there.

Gareth and Carter have had a love-hate relationship since they met in nursery last year and I knew his mother agreed when she turned back and responded with a sigh, “I’m sure he did nothing to provoke it.” nod, nod, wink, wink

Carter has no qualms telling stories about himself – even when incriminating – so I asked, “Hey man, what happened on the playground?” And the story goes like this…

Watipa, a little girl in his class, got a haircut the day before and she was afraid that the boys would laugh at her because she was bald like a boy.  She didn’t want to take her hat off on the playground. But Gareth kept chasing her and trying to steal her hat. So, Carter concluded, “I had to block him.”

Gallant, admirable, sweet boy. But still… Jeff and I continued to ask a few more clarifying questions. To which Carter sighed the sigh of man often unjustly accused and concluded, “Are you really so surprised?”

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